I so relate to having taking such good care of myself when pregnant (twice) and have commented since, “If only I could do it just for me!” Finally, 21 years later I have learned to take better care of myself for me and it feels great. Always room for imrovpement but happy to contentedly have the big brush strokes down. Going back to your perfection comment the other day – I no longer expect perfection but I do expect good direction.